How to Date a Women

September 7, 2008

Have you ever noticed this? Whenever a guy is with an attractive woman, he would naturally want to attract her attention. Nothing new, right? You will then notice, if shes really a hot one, the guy will not only want to attract her attention, but hell also want to try to impress her in whatever way he can.

He might be thinking that he wants to be different from the other guys. And what will he do? Well, even though his mindset is right, I would say that most likely, without him realizing it, he wont he will do the obvious. Hell be nervous as hell ie. he will naturally tend to talk faster, more abruptly, fidget & move about more, etc when hes with her. Notice that some guys will even have their own lil interview thing going on in their head.

Theyll have sort of like these pre-set questions that theyll be ever so ready to pound the girl with; lame questions ie. how old are you, where are you from, what do you like doing in your free time, hows is your mom doing, hows your dad doing?... Know what Im talking about? Theyll just keep asking these questions non-stop thinking that this will actually keep the conversation going but honestly, dont you think an attractive woman gets asked the same ol questions all the time?Same goes with the age old concept of being the nice guy whos there for her all the time, who does all the sweet things for her, buying her gifts and doing all those stuff that your parents normally teaches their kids on dating.

Now, dont you think that 90% of guys do the exact same thing all the time?You see, when you do this, she can basically sense that youre being needy and insecure. Why do I say needy? Needy because it gives her the impression that you need to do certain things; you need to practically work your way to impress her.

It also projects a sign of weakness in your part. That youre just insecure about yourself. Trust me, doing so will seem way too normal for them.They wont stick around when they sense this. And women are extremely good in their intuition. I cant really explain why. Nor can they. But its just something that they can just feel.

So, whats the best way to spark the attraction with women then? Simple. Do the UNEXPECTED. Do the unpredictable that catches their attention. For example, in this case, what you can do is to project a lack of interest in the girl whether or not shes there. You see, Im here telling you that its perfectly OK to have relaxed moments of silences when youre with the girl.

Its ok if you have nothing to say sometimes. Often times what you should in fact do is to project a very laid back, relaxed, and confident air about yourself when youre with her.You must project to her that youre really comfortable with your own self first and not just looking to pick up someone, and to impress someone.

You have to show it to her that you dont need to impress her.Shell have to be the one to do the impressing. Think of it this way, if shes a real attractive woman, she probably gets hit on at least 3-5 times a day -- EVERYDAY.

I know for a fact that these guys will most likely act the same pathetic way and will try to impress like the rest of the pack.She knows it and it eventually becomes HER reality. She has become used to having guys hit on her. Now, if you suddenly come along and act as if youre not intimidated by her beauty, and you just act as if youre not one bit interested in her... ... and you just might not even acknowledge of her existence at times.

Imagine how things have changed now? When she most EXPECTS you to hit on her, you dont.Dont you think shell even take a little notice of then? Think about this. Its some powerful stuff.

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