On the television the other morning someone described autism as a living nightmare. Im not sure Id personally go that far yet but it certainly is a major concern - at least for the parents.
My son is autistic and is eighteen. Until now he has been very lucky. He has been able to access support via childrens services, but I realise many people arent as fortunate. Ive heard numerous tales of parents whove had to really fight for what little help theyve had and many get none at all.
I do, but that will soon change. Although my son can already legally drive, drink and vote, he is considered a child until he is nineteen and can remain at his special needs school and go to respite once a month until then. However, as soon as he hits that age he becomes an adult.
Whilst his needs will still be the same, the help to which he will be entitled will be reduced - considerably. Suddenly everything, which has become so familiar to him over the years, will stop.
I wish for his sake and mine time would stand still.
We are currently in the transition period where we are exploring the options available to him. They are limited to say the least but we are fortunate in as much as he is not physically disabled which must make things far more difficult.
Its Not Whether You Win or Lose.::
reason that Kirby cites as evidence that those who Confession time. I am still on the rolls as a parent who the partners at Wallace hope to make big
http://www.autismvox.com/its-not-whether-you-win-or-lose/HOME |
However, nothing we have seen so far even comes close to what we aspire. The local options arent really suitable and arent conducive to his continued improvement. Its depressing and I often wish I could go to sleep and wake up to find the whole autism thing was just a bad dream.
Having said that I realise I am actually one of the lucky ones for my son has got options. Other autistic children/adults dont. Its no wonder parents despair and either accept anything offered, or send their children miles away to some form of residential unit simply because there is nothing appropriate closer to home.
Cross Creek Family Counseling | Autism::
Is there reason for hope? Can social skills and behavior be improved? to people and toys, or focusing intently on one item for long periods of time.
http://www.crosscreekcounseling.com/autism.htmlHOME |
Autism Diva: Blue Ribbon Commision on Autism: Unresponsive::
eventually enter full time work, there are still ways they can They can only see one part of autism at a time: the non-verbal, self-injurious,
http://autismdiva.blogspot.com/2006/09/blue-ribbon-commision-on-autism.htmlHOME |
The National Autistic Society now suggests 1 in 100 children suffer from some form of autistic spectrum disorder. In 1993 when my son was diagnosed it was 1 in 2500.
The problem is that all these autistic children will grow up to be autistic adults, and the big question is what will they do?
Apparently only 15% of adults with autism manage to hold down employment and 49% never leave home. That means in many cases elderly parents are effectively looking after their age 40 plus children and its a worry. What happens if they get ill? Who then will look after their children and how will they adapt?
Its a frightening scenario and one that many parents currently face. Since autism is a problem that isnt going away there needs to be more co-ordinated planning and services put in place before it is too late.
Families need help to enable their adults with autism to be more independent otherwise the cost to the community will be immense. If there is no-where for the people with autism to work then their carers cant work either.
I once heard someone exclaim the world would be destroyed by the three As - anger, avarice and autism. Maybe thats true.
We are already seeing wars and violence created by anger and greed. Now think about all the autistic children you know. They are the adults of the future.
Frightening isnt it?
Now you know one reason I wish time would stand still.
Pre-Article:Secured Home Loans Give Financial Vow
Next-Article:Anti Aging Products for Youthful Look | Anti Aging Product
|
Autism - One Reason I Wish Time Would Stand Still